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The Houston Emergency Opioid Engagement System (HEROES) understands that the disease of addiction impacts family, friends, and loved ones. The HEROES Program is here to help support, share information, and answer questions. Please use the contact form and someone from our staff will connect with you, or sign up to join our family support group.
Addiction is a complex disease of the brain and body that involves compulsive use of one or more substances despite serious health and social consequences. Addiction disrupts regions of the brain that are responsible for reward, motivation, learning, judgment and memory. It damages various body systems as well as families, relationships, schools, workplaces and neighborhoods.
Addiction is defined as a disease by most medical associations, including the American Medical Association and the American Society of Addiction Medicine.
Like diabetes, cancer and heart disease, addiction is caused by a combination of behavioral, environmental and biological factors. Genetic risks factors account for about half of the likelihood that an individual will develop addiction.
Addiction involves changes in the functioning of the brain and body. These changes may be brought on by risky substance use or may pre-exist.
The consequences of untreated addiction often include other physical and mental health disorders that require medical attention. If left untreated over time, addiction becomes more severe, disabling and life threatening.
People feel pleasure when basic needs such as hunger, thirst and sex are satisfied. In most cases, these feelings of pleasure are caused by the release of certain chemicals in the brain. Most addictive substances cause the brain to release high levels of these same chemicals that are associated with pleasure or reward.
Over time, continued release of these chemicals causes changes in the brain systems involved in reward, motivation and memory. When these changes occur, a person may need the substance to feel normal. The individual may also experience intense desires or cravings for the addictive substance and will continue to use it despite the harmful or dangerous consequences. The person will also prefer the drug to other healthy pleasures and may lose interest in normal life activities. In the most chronic form of the disease, addiction can cause a person to stop caring about their own or other’s well-being or survival.
These changes in the brain can remain for a long time, even after the person stops using substances. It is believed that these changes may leave those with addiction vulnerable to physical and environmental cues that they associate with substance use, also known as triggers, which can increase their risk of relapse.
A chronic disease is a long-lasting condition that can be controlled but not cured.
About 25-50% of people with a substance use problem appear to have a severe, chronic disorder. For them, addiction is a progressive, relapsing disease that requires intensive treatments and continuing aftercare, monitoring and family or peer support to manage their recovery. The good news is that even the most severe, chronic form of the disorder can be manageable and reversible, usually with long term treatment and continued monitoring and support for recovery.
The initial and early decisions to use substances reflect a person’s free or conscious choice. However, once the brain has been changed by addiction, that choice or willpower becomes impaired. Perhaps the most defining symptom of addiction is a loss of control over substance use.
People with addiction should not be blamed for suffering from the disease. All people make choices about whether to use substances. However, people do not choose how their brain and body respond to drugs and alcohol, which is why people with addiction cannot control their use while others can. People with addiction can still stop using – it’s just much harder than it is for someone who has not become addicted. People with addiction are responsible for seeking treatment and maintaining recovery. Often they need the help and support of family, friends and peers to stay in treatment and increase their chances of survival and recovery.
Some people think addiction cannot be a disease because it is caused by the individual’s choice to use drugs or alcohol. While the first use (or early stage use) may be by choice, once the brain has been changed by addiction, most experts believe that the person loses control of their behavior.
Choice does not determine whether something is a disease. Heart disease, diabetes and some forms of cancer involve personal choices like diet, exercise, sun exposure, etc. A disease is what happens in the body as a result of those choices.
Others argue that addiction is not a disease because some people with addiction get better without treatment. People with a mild substance use disorder may recover with little or no treatment. People with the most serious form of addiction usually need intensive treatment followed by lifelong management of the disease. However, some people with severe addiction stop drinking or using drugs without treatment, usually after experiencing a serious family, social, occupational, physical, or spiritual crisis. Others achieve sobriety by attending self-help (12-step or AA) meetings without receiving much, if any, professional treatment. Because we do not understand why some people are able to stop on their own or through self-help meetings at certain points in their life, people with addiction should always seek treatment.
ReferencesCASA Columbia (2012) Addiction medicine: Closing the gap between science and practice. https://www.centeronaddiction.org/what-addiction/addiction-disease
One of the most challenging aspects of addiction is that it is a progressive disease. Early warning signs can go unnoticed until well into unhealthy patterns of use. Behavioral signs of substance use are often the first observable signs of addiction. Those actively using substances may start to display dramatic changes in behaviors, habits, and priorities.
Common Behavioral Signs of Substance Dependence and Addiction | ||
Problems at work or school | Increased absence, chronically late, poor performance | |
Disrupted sleep patterns | Sleeping more, sleeping less | |
High-risk behaviors | Criminal activity, legal problems | |
Defensiveness | Changing subject when asked about substance use, resistance to feedback | |
Different priorities | Loss of interest in activities and hobbies, missing important engagements | |
Heightened secrecy | Increased desire for privacy, dishonest about whereabouts | |
Suspicious excuses | Elaborate excuses, outright lying | |
Personality transformation | Shifts in mood, attitude | |
Physical appearance | Significant weight loss, weight gain | |
Drastic relationship changes | Abandonment of long-time peer groups, increased conflict, socially isolating | |
Drastic relationship changes | Abandonment of long-time peer groups, increased conflict, socially isolating | |
Financial problems | Spending more money than usual, unexplained need for money, requesting to borrow money | |
Emotional disruption | Sudden mood swings, irritability, angry outbursts | |
Constant illness | Frequent flu-like symptoms, unexplained injuries | |
Social media behavior | Posting very different messages, odd language, login at irregular times | |
Decline of personal hygiene | Unhealthy or unclean skin, hair, teeth, and nails |
Since addiction is a brain disease, it helps explain why people need treatment at all – why most people cannot just stop. Addiction is a complex bio-behavioral disorder whose development and expression depend heavily on social context, addiction treatment inevitably has different components. The symptoms of this brain disease go beyond simply using a lot of substances. Addiction has diverse medical, behavioral, and social consequences that affect one’s ability to function in virtually every life domain. Thus, the target outcome for treatment is not just reducing substance use; it must be restoring the individual to full functioning in the family, at work, and in society. The best treatments combine – as appropriate to the individual—medications, behavioral therapies, and necessary psychosocial services, including peer recovery support services.
These 13 principles of effective drug addiction treatment were developed based on three decades of scientific research. Research shows that treatment can help drug-addicted individuals stop drug use, avoid relapse and successfully recover their lives.
Source: National Institute on Drug Abuse. These principles are detailed in NIDA’s Principles of Drug Addiction Treatment: A Research-Based Guide.
Different types of medications may be useful at different stages of treatment to help a patient treat withdrawal symptoms, stay in treatment, and prevent relapse. Individual treatment plans will vary.
Some of the goals of medication in the treatment of addictions include:
This section provides an overview of the medications and therapies that comprise MAT. Several medications have been found effective in treating addiction to opioids, alcohol, and nicotine in adults. There are currently no FDA-approved medications to treat addiction to cannabis, cocaine, or methamphetamine.
Some of the most commonly used medication assisted treatments are listed below:
Naltrexone (Vivitrol®) is approved for the prevention of relapse in patients following a complete detoxification from opioids/alcohol. It acts by blocking the brain’s opioid receptors; preventing opioid drugs/alcohol from acting on them and thus blocking the euphoria the user would normally feel. This medication is approved and recommended to be used in conjunction with outpatient counseling treatment.
Buprenorphine (Suboxone®) reduces or eliminates opioid withdrawal symptoms, including drug cravings, without producing the euphoria or dangerous side effects of heroin and other opioids. It does this by both activating and blocking opioid receptors in the brain.
Methadone prevents opioid withdrawal symptoms and reduces cravings by activating opioid receptors in the brain. It is available through specially licensed methadone treatment programs.
Disulfiram (Antabuse®) inhibits an enzyme involved in the metabolism of alcohol, causing an unpleasant reaction (i.e. flushing, nausea, and heart palpitations) is alcohol is consumed after taking the medication.
Acamprosate (Campral®) reduces symptoms of protracted withdrawal (i.e., insomnia, anxiety, restlessness, and dysphoria) by normalizing brain systems disrupted by chronic alcohol consumption in adults. It is thought to be more effective in patients with severe alcohol use disorders.
In addition to the above medications for substance use disorder treatment, Naloxone is a medication used to prevent opioid overdose deaths. Naloxone binds to the opioid receptors and can rapidly reverse or block the effects of other opioids. In doing so, Naloxone can very quickly restore normal respiration to a person whose breathing has slowed or stopped as a result of opioid overdose.
Approved Medications for Opioid Use Disorder | ||||
Prescribing Considerations | Buprenorphine (Suboxone®, Subutex®) | Extended-Release Buprenorphine (Sublocade®) | Extended-Release Injectable Naltrexone (Vivitrol®) | Methadone (Methadose®, Dolophine®) |
Frequency of Administration | Daily | Monthly | Monthly | Daily |
Route of Administration | Oral tablet or film is dissolved under the tongue. Can be taken at a physician’s office or at home | Subcutaneous injection by a certified healthcare professional | Intramuscular Injection in the gluteal muscle by healthcare professional | Oral (liquid) consumption, usually witnessed at an Opioid Treatment Program (OTP) |
Restrictions of Prescribing/ Dispensing | Only licensed physicians who are DEA registered and either work at an OTP or have obtained a waiver to prescribe | Healthcare settings and pharmacies that are certified in the Risk Evaluation and Mitigation Strategy (REMS) program | Any individual who is licensed to prescribe medicine (physician, physician assistant, nurse practitioner) may prescribe and order administration by qualified staff | Only licensed physicians who are DEA registered and who work at an OTP can order methadone for dispensing |
Additional Requirements | Physician must complete limited special training to qualify for the DEA prescribing waiver; any pharmacy can fill the prescriptions | Requirement of stabilization on daily oral buprenorphine medication for 7+ days prior to induction; only certified providers may administer | Requirement of 7-14 days without any opioid or opioid containing medication prior to induction; any pharmacy can fill the prescription | For opioid dependence treatment purposes, methadone can only be purchased by and dispensed at certified OTPs or hospitals |
Adapted from SAMHSA.gov
Are people really "drug-free" if they take a medication? Aren't they just substituting one drug for another? We believe there are important distinctions. While some people choose to use alcohol, marijuana or illegal drugs, nobody chooses to have a substance use disorder. Alcoholism and other drug addiction is a disease that wreaks havoc in the parts of the brain involved in making choices and controlling behavior. There’s no weakness, laziness, or lack of moral character involved when your mind and body tell you that taking a drug is as urgent as taking your next breath. People who are committed to treatment and recovery learn that there are many differences between substances used to get high and medications used to get well. The chart below lists examples of these differences.
Drug* | Medication |
The motivation to use a drug is a brain reward (euphoria, or getting high). | The motivation to use medication is to prevent and treat an illness. |
The pattern of using drugs is marked by dosages and methods of administration— such as injection or smoking—that create spikes and slumps in the drug's concentration in a person's blood. The dosage escalates and the drug is administered more frequently. | The pattern of using medication is marked by dosages, dosing schedules, and methods of administration that produce steady concentrations of the drug in a person's blood. |
Drug use is characterized by self-monitoring, a progressive loss of control, and secrecy and dishonesty. | Control and monitoring of medication is maintained via open, honest communication with physicians and family members. |
The net effect of drug use is a progressive deterioration in the quality of life. | The net effect of medication use is a progressive improvement in the quality of life. |
Drug use (other than alcohol use by adults) often involves breaking the law. | Medication is taken within laws that govern its manufacture, sale, possession, and use. |
Drug use often occurs within a drug-saturated social network. | Medication use occurs within a pro-recovery social network. |
Addiction is a family disease that stresses the family to the breaking point, impacts the stability of the home, the family’s unity, mental health, finances, and overall family dynamics. Addiction can totally disrupt family life and cause harmful effects that can last a lifetime. The disease of addiction affects the family on several levels. Families have a remarkable ability to maintain what family therapists call homeostasis. But when alcohol or drugs are introduced into a family system, the family’s ability to regulate its emotional and behavioral functioning is severely challenged. The family will generally reach as a unit to balance itself. In homes with substance abuse, this may become a dysfunctional sort of balance.
Family members can become subsumed by the disease to such an extent they lose their sense of normal. Their life becomes about hiding the truth from themselves, their children and their relational world. Trust and faith in an orderly and predictable world can be challenged as their family life becomes chaotic, promises are broken and those they depend upon for support and stability behave in untrustworthy ways. Because the disease is progressive, family members seamlessly slip into patterns of relating that become increasingly more dysfunctional. The spouse without substance dependence, parents, or children are often forced to ignore their own needs, as well as the needs of other members, as they seek, for example, to avoid confrontations with the substance using family member, to excuse or cover up their problematic behaviors, or to deal with the financial consequences of it. Family rules that formerly provided safety and predictability are no longer working, and new rules gradually emerge.
Family members consciously and unconsciously develop behaviors and coping mechanisms to adapt to and soften the impact of the addiction on their dependent loved one and themselves. These rules, which grow out of desperation to keep the family unit together, are usually unhealthy. Yet even though these new rules are adversely affecting the wellbeing of family members, they eventually become a central organizing feature of the family system.
You didn't cause the addiction. It is not your fault your loved one is addicted to drugs. Repeat that to yourself: “It is not my fault”. Despite what you have come to believe, you did not drive that person to use drugs. Maybe the drug user has suggested you are the cause of the problem. Don’t believe it. The person using substances is highly resistant to taking responsibility and happy to put the blame on you. Remember too that you make the situation worse by taking responsibility when you should not. Think about it: if you are to blame, then that means the person is free to use drugs without any feelings of responsibility. Your love or lack of it can no more compel someone to abuse drugs than to become diabetic. You are powerless over the disease of addiction – this is the first thing to remember.
You can't control the addiction. Unless the person using substances wants to give up drugs, your attempts at controlling the situation will be futile. Under pressure, the individual may ease off for a while, but they are bound to relapse. It’s only when the individual makes the decision that they want to stop because they have had enough self-imposed misery that recovery can begin.
You can't cure the addiction. Unless you are a doctor, you likely will accept that you cannot cure diseases. In the same way, if your loved one is addicted to substances, accept that you cannot make them well. Clinging to the belief that you can cure the addiction worsens the situation. You make it harder for the person who uses substances to get well, because you make yourself the agent of recovery. But it’s the individual substance user alone who can make the decision to stop using drugs. Take that decision away from them and you diminish their power to find their way out of addiction. As with any illness, the sick person must first accept they suffer from a disease before they will do anything to address it. Unless you as a family member is clear on this point, you will cause yourself much heartache and frustration in fruitless attempts to force the individual using substances to get well.
Accepting that your loved one is suffering from a disease, here are some of the things you can do to improve the situation:
Below are some suggestions on ways to stop enabling your loved one:
Drawing the line between enabling your substance dependent loved one and offering them reasonable help can be difficult. In trying to determine if an action on your part falls into one category or the other, one question to ask yourself is this: are you doing something for the substance user that they are capable of doing for themselves? If you are doing for them what they should be doing for themselves, that very likely means your behavior is enabling. When we enable, when we do for them what they can – and should – do for themselves, we send two messages: that the person is not capable of helping themselves and that someone else is going to do it for them. Both messages, obviously, are untrue and both are destructive to the chances that they will get their life together. For instance, the individual has run out of money and so you pay for their cell phone bill. That’s enabling. They should be paying that bill themselves. Yes, it is going to cause them inconvenience, and them not having a phone may cause you anxiety too, but you are doing them no favor when you help in these ways. You need to ask yourself whether your effort – whatever it may be -- is going to help them confront their addiction or whether it is helping them avoid it. As heart wrenching as it may be to allow them to experience the dark places they land themselves in, this is what they need if they are ever to confront their disease. Though it may seem like the hardest thing in the world, the best thing you can do may be to do nothing – meanwhile, allowing them to reach a place where they will want to do something for themselves.
Below are some suggestions on ways to stop enabling your loved one:
Caregiver Support
Addiction is a chronic and progressive brain disease impacted by biological, psychological, and social influences. Understanding addiction and learning skills to manage is important for supporting friends or family in long-term recovery.
This weekly group is to provide support and informational services to family and friends of loved ones living with substance use disorder. The group is facilitated by experienced staff familiar with the processes of recovery.
Andrea J Yatsco, PhD, CADC, LCDC is a certified and licensed addiction counselor and currently employed as the Program Manager for the Houston ER Opioid Engagement System (HEROES) program at UT Health. She received her PhD in Criminal Justice from Sam Houston State. Her undergraduate work at University of Arizona included a major in psychology and a minor in sociology that focused on learning how to understand both individual dynamics and social relationships. Dr. Yatsco has counseled adult incarcerated populations, and worked with families and juvenile offenders. She is a previous adjunct professor of Becker College, teaching curriculum in the undergraduate forensic psychology concentration and developing grant funded substance education courses on family dynamics of addiction and adolescent risk factors.
Christine R. Bakos-Block, PhD, LCSW is currently a postdoc fellow with the Houston ER Opioid Engagement System (HEROES). She received her PhD in social work from the University of Houston where she serves as a clinical adjunct professor. Christine has worked in the behavioral health field for over 7 years and also has a part-time private psychotherapy practice.
Other Resources
Al-Anon Family Groups
http://www.houstonalanon.org
Nar-Anon Family Groups
https://www.nar-anon.org
Opioid Support Group for Family or Loved Ones
1st Thursday of the month, 6-7pm, all are welcome
The Council on Recovery
303 Jackson Hill St
Houston, TX 77007
(713) 942-4100
https://www.councilonrecovery.org/
Parents of Adolescents/Adults in Recovery (PAR)
The Hope & Healing Center
717 Sage Road
Houston, TX 77056
(713) 871-1004, ext. 570
https://hopeandhealingcenter.org/
Faith Based Pathway to Peace Recovery Ministries
Concerns Persons Group for Families and Loved Ones
Thursdays @7p.m.
CCCC Clear Lake campus
16743 Diana Lane
Houston, TX 77062
(832) 287-9299
For more information contact: Jennifer Ellis ([email protected])
(Many services listed are low cost or offer sliding scale based on income)
Center for Recovering Families
The Council on Recovery
303 Jackson Hill St
Houston, TX 77007
(713) 914-0556
https://www.councilonrecovery.org/treatment-programs/
Houston Galveston Institute
Multiple Locations
713-526-8390
www.talkhgi.org
Fuller Life Family Therapy Institute
4545 Bissonnet St, #289
Houston, 77401
855-245-5433
Krist Samaritan
17555 El Camino Real
Houston, 77058
281-480-7554
http://www.samaritanhouston.org
Shield Bearer
Multiple locations:
281-894-7222
http://www.shieldbearer.org
Center for Creative Resources
816 Hawthorne St
Houston, 77006
713-461-7599
Catholic Charities
Multiple locations
713-874-6590
http://www.catholiccharities.org/
Family Services of Greater Houston
4625 Lillian
Houston, 77007
713-861-4849
https://www.familyhouston.org
Check out the “recovery” section of bookstores or www.amazon.com, hazelden.com and www.al-anon.alteen.org. Search under key words such as “recovery”, “codependency”, “family recovery”, “addiction”, etc.
The Houston Emergency Opioid Engagement System (HEROES) understands that the disease of addiction impacts family, friends, and loved ones. The HEROES Program is here to help support, share information, and answer questions. Please use the contact form and someone from our staff will connect with you, or sign up to join our family support group.